You must accept it. Your thoughts, your feelings, what you focus on are all energy. Do you understand that you have created the person you have become and created the quality of life you have. Take a good look at what you have created. You, and only you, are responsible for your present level of success in life. Right now, reflect on ways to make a positive difference in the quality of your life.
First, choose the area of life you want to focus. It can be your relationship, your career, your health; your finances just to mention a few. The most important thing to remember is to focus on just one area to start. As you conquer the first obstacle, then go to the next.
Keep moving forward until your goals are reached. Know your purpose. Increase your awareness of your inner wisdom by regularly reflecting in silence. Breathe deeply to quiet your distracted mind. Identify your life purpose and stop wandering through life with little or no direction. You must stop and smell the roses. Try this experiment and take note of reactions of different types of people.